Meet Dr. Amira McLemore Wolfson, the CEO of Pace School — a special education school with an individualized approach to emotional, behavioral and social challenges, as well as autism, in Pittsburgh. She lives in Squirrel Hill with her husband, Arthur, and their two children, Arianna (12) and Aidan (10). At home, she brings the same intentional leadership she applies to her role as an education leader to her role as a partner and parent, balancing the demands of a mission-driven career with the rhythms of family life.
What does a “balanced day” look like for you?
I wear many hats! I’m the CEO of Pace School and the COO of our family. I have a responsibil-ity to my staff, students, families, communities and my husband and children. I prioritize based on who needs what at the time. It’s an ebb and flow in my day and throughout the course of the year.
When work and family life both demand your attention, what helps you to decide where to focus your energy?
It can often be difficult to navigate competing interests. I am very definitive in my decision-making both professionally and personally. I also recognize that things can be “both/and,” so I give myself grace to do the best I can at that time.
How has being a mom shaped the way you lead?
Parenting is the greatest life lesson, and being a mother has expanded my perspective on the students and families we serve each day. I lead with my heart. Heart work is hard work, but it is also deeply rewarding. I am at my best when I bring a student/human-centered approach as a CEO, partner, parent and friend.
What are some small, meaningful ways you stay connected with your children each day?
I spend a few minutes checking in [on] each of my children in the morning, afternoon and evening. Sometimes, it’s just listening to something they want to share with me, or playing a “quick” game or reading in the living room. I also say “I love you!” multiple times a day when I think they least expect it.
What rituals or habits help you recharge and prevent burnout?
I am very aware of the potential for burnout in my role as CEO and COO. As such, I have a few outlets:
● I work out at the gym and take a group class weekly. It’s both socially and physically rewarding.
● I have a unique friend group that enjoys the sauna and cold plunge experience. It’s not for the faint of heart, but it leaves me feeling ready!
● I regularly meet friend(s) for coffee, brunch or dinner. Connecting with other professional women really fills my cup.
● GOLF! I started taking lessons and playing this past year. It’s uniquely challenging in the
level of focus it requires in addition to the physical demands. There’s nothing better than the sound of a perfectly hit ball!
As your family grows and your leadership evolves, what kind of legacy do you hope to leave for your children?
I hope my children know they are loved unconditionally, understand they are part of something much larger than themselves and desire to contribute something to the world and leave it better than they found it.
Are there any mottos or quotes that resonate with you?
“Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.”
— Amira M. Wolfson
Family Favorites
Weekend Activity: Watching our children enjoy their myriad activities: sports, running, dancing, musicals, etc.
Sports Team: Steelers, Pirates, Penguins and Penn State
Family Movie: “Jingle Jangle” — We watch it every year, and it never gets old.
Date Night Plans: Lilith and Otaru are at the top of the list!
Family Restaurant: Shady Grove (where my husband and I met), The Urban Tap or Casbah (special occasions)
Carrie Woodard is a National Certified Counselor, National Certified School Counselor and Pittsburgh mama of two.
